Imposter syndrome. It’s a term that’s everywhere in the design community. Many of my peers feel inadequate, even though they have clear talent and achievements. Yet, I don’t feel the same way. As a designer, I’ve never had that kind of insecurity. Sure, I worry about how my work will be received. After all, pouring your heart into a project and having it judged isn’t easy. But imposter syndrome? It’s a concept that doesn’t connect with me.
Embracing Confidence Over Doubt
Since the start of my career, I’ve always done my best with what I had. Whether people praised or criticised my work, I’ve been strong enough to handle it. I see challenges not as signs that I’m not good enough but as chances to grow. This way of thinking has protected me from the self-doubt that defines imposter syndrome.
Is It Nature or Nurture?
This makes me wonder: does my lack of imposter syndrome come from my upbringing? I don’t recall my single mum giving me special confidence to guard against these feelings. But she never put crazy pressure on me to overachieve. It’s interesting, especially since I’ve often felt disadvantaged in other aspects of life. I never learned much about money or networking, partly because I grew up in a poorer family that didn’t drink. Talking about money or being in social situations can be awkward for me, even though I was incredibly popular growing up.
The Paradox of Ease and Difficulty
It’s ironic that while the creative process feels natural to me, I struggle with what others might consider basic life skills. Dealing with finances or feeling comfortable at networking events doesn’t come easily. I can handle them, but I avoid them when possible. Perhaps because design feels so innate, I don’t question my place in the field. It’s the one area where I feel completely at home, free from the insecurities that plague me elsewhere.
Recognising Others’ Struggles
What’s puzzling is that I’ve known brilliant people who’ve achieved incredible things, yet they still suffer from imposter syndrome. It makes me wonder if my perspective is the exception rather than the rule. I used to think those who felt like imposters were simply in the wrong place, but clearly, it’s more complicated than that.
Understanding Without Experiencing
While I may not personally relate to imposter syndrome, I acknowledge that it’s a genuine and often debilitating experience for many. My journey has been different, shaped by factors I may not fully understand. Perhaps it’s a mix of upbringing, personal mindset, and the unique quirks that make us who we are. What I do know is that it’s important to create environments where everyone feels validated and supported, whether they struggle with self-doubt or, like me, navigate different challenges.
I’d love to hear your thoughts. Do you relate to imposter syndrome, or have you found ways to overcome it?